Reading Parshat Shemini after Yom Hashoah and before Yom Hazikaron and Yom Ha’atzmaut feels especially resonant this year. Aaron emerges as a model of leadership rooted in humility and responsibility, and finds the courage to live with hope despite deep grief.

The parsha opens with God commanding Aaron and the people to bring offerings—including a calf (egel). Midrash Tanchuma explains this was an atonement for the sin of the Golden Calf, in which Aaron played a significant role. Yet Moshe must tell Aaron a second time to draw near and bring the offering. Rashi notes that Aaron was ashamed and afraid, and only with Moshe’s encouragement did he step forward to atone for himself and the people. It is precisely Aaron’s humility, especially after his earlier failing, that enables him to lead the people toward forgiveness.

Aaron provides another lesson in leadership when, tragically, on the eighth day of the inauguration of the Mishkan, his sons Nadav and Avihu offer a “foreign fire” and are instantly killed by God. Their sin is not entirely clear. The Sages suggest various interpretations of what they did wrong: sacrificing a korban which was not commanded, teaching Torah in front of their teacher Moshe, entering the sanctuary naked, performing their duties while drunk, refusing to marry or have children. In the midrash, Nadav and Avihu are portrayed as irresponsible and full of hubris. In contrast, Aaron responds to their death with silent grief, yet finds the strength to carry on. As Moshe instructs him to forgo the usual mourning rituals, Aaron continues his service as Kohen Gadol.

Aaron, like many survivors and the heroes we have witnessed this year, is a model for leaders and all of Am Yisrael—to have humility before God and others, and, despite the grief, to find the strength to continue and to live. Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson