At times in Jewish history, diversity and debate have been celebrated as sources of strength; at others, discord has threatened to tear us apart, making unity essential. One verse in Parshat Re’eh offers a powerful reminder of this balance.

“You are children of the LORD your God. You shall not gash yourselves (lo titgodedu) or shave the front of your heads (karha) because of the dead…God chose you… to be His treasured people.” What is the connection between these ancient mourning rituals and our status as God’s children, the chosen people? Rashi explains that the Torah prohibits these mourning rituals because they compromise bodily dignity as the “children of God.” The Rabbis, however, interpret the verse differently: lo titgodedu means “lo ta’asu agudot agudot”—“do not split into factions.” In halakha, this is applied to communal disputes, such as when different courts or synagogues in one city follow conflicting practices. The issue grew even sharper with the ingathering of Jews from diverse communities to Israel, raising the challenge of preserving distinct customs without fragmenting into factions.

What is the purpose of this mitzvah? Rashi comments that it should not look like there are two Torahs. According to Rambam it is to prevent great conflict between Jews. Similarly, Yalkut Shimoni interprets the word “karha,” as an allusion to the kind of discord sown by “Korah” – don’t make a “karha” (deep divide) within the Jewish people. Perhaps this is why this prohibition is bracketed by reminders of our status as God’s children, the chosen people.

As we enter Elul, this message is particularly resonant. It is a call for the Jewish people and for Israeli society to reaffirm our collective identity, to resist the pull of division, and to focus on what Rabbi Jonathan Sacks called a covenant of “we.” Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson