Parshat Ki Tavo: Communal Gratitude

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Parshat Ki Tavo opens with an expression of gratitude for Israel and its produce. The interpretation of “bikkurim” – the mitzvah to bring one’s first fruits in Israel to the mikdash – reinforces the Jewish people’s love and commitment to God and Israel throughout history.

Rashi explains that offering the first, often most precious fruits, to God, demonstrated that a person was not “kafui tova,” ungrateful to God. Rambam writes that bikkurim are a reminder to remain humble about our success, and to remember that God is the ultimate source of such blessings. Hence, the verbal recalling of our origins as slaves in Egypt, instilling us with humility and appreciation. In addition to bringing the fruits, a person recites before the kohen: “I acknowledge this day before God, that I have entered the land…” Hence the Sforno and Ramban see bikkurim as an expression of gratitude for the gift of Eretz Yisrael. 

When does the mitzvah of bikkurim apply? Midrash Sifrei states that bikkurim apply as soon as an individual enters the land of Israel and begins to produce fruit. Rashi, however, comments that it began only when all of Bnei Yisrael conquered and inherited the land. According to Rashi, there is a communal dimension which is needed in order for bikkurim to be fulfilled properly. 

Similarly, the expression of gratitude in our daily tefilla contains this dual nature. “Modeh Ani,” an individual’s immediate and spontaneous expression of gratitude, said each morning before getting out of bed corresponds to Sifrei’s understanding of bikkurim: brought immediately by individuals. Then there is a communal gratitude of “Modim,” in the amidah. This gratitude, expressed in the plural, is likened to Rashi’s view that bikkurim be taken only when all Klal Yisrael was settled in Israel. 

The generation entering the land of Israel knows the consequences of spreading ingratitude and negativity about Israel. Bikkurim creates a system for the Jewish nation to practice and ensure communal gratitude and appreciation of Israel throughout all time. Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson

Parshat Ki Tezte: Motherly Compassion

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Parshat Ki Tetze contains many mitzvot. One in particular relates to a central theme during Elul and Rosh Hashanah: fostering and praying for mercy and compassion.

What is the purpose of the mitzvah of “shiluach ha-ken,” to send away the mother bird before taking her young or her eggs? The mishna Berachot teaches that one may not add to tefilla the statement: Be merciful with us as “Your mercy is extended to a bird’s nest.” One explanation in the gemara of this ambiguous statement is that it is best not to attach reasons to mitzvot. Still, many biblical commentaries see a deep connection between shiluach ha-ken and the trait of compassion.

Rambam, in Guide to the Perplexed, explains that if the Torah warns against causing such grief to birds, how much more careful should we be not to cause grief to people. The Ha’amek Davar highlights the bravery of the mother bird, who’s intuition is to stay and protect her children – an image of compassion par excellence. The word “rachamim” (mercy) is also related to the word “rechem” (womb), symbolic of the compassion a mother feels toward her child. Perhaps for this reason mothers – Sarah, Hagar, Hannah – feature prominently in Rosh Hashanah liturgy, when we pray fervently for God’s compassion.

The shofar which is blown throughout Elul, in the run up to Rosh Hashana, is also associated with rachamim, as it recalls the ram sacrificed instead of Yitzchak. According to the midrash, God called Moshe to go back up Mount Sinai a second time on Rosh Chodesh Elul. The shofar was blown then to awaken the people to repentance and in prayer for God’s mercy and forgiveness.

By emulating the compassion God has for us in this world – be it toward others or with ourselves – we merit the words of the Talmud, “anyone who has compassion for God’s creatures will receive compassion from Heaven.” Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson

Parshat Shoftim: True Leadership

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“True leaders understand that leadership is not about them but about those they serve. It is not about exalting themselves but about lifting others up”. -Sheri L. Dew

The laws of various types of leadership discussed in parshat Shoftim highlights the challenges and moral responsibility involved in being a leader and also empowers individuals in choosing good leaders. 

Alongside the Torah’s command to appoint judges in every town, comes the warning to judges not to show favor or take bribes and: “justice, justice you shall pursue.” When the people want a king, the Torah enumerates various ways the king may abuse his powers – the king must not have too many wives or riches and must keep a Torah scroll with him to be mindful of God and mitzvot. Shoftim also talks about priests and prophets, who are chosen by God. Yet, there are limits to their power – the kohanim don’t receive inheritance and the navi must be careful to only relay the word of God. Along with stature comes sacrifice and responsibility. 

Yet, there is also responsibility placed on the shoulders of individuals.

The Sefer Hachinuch teaches that the biblical command to appoint judges to a beit din (religious court) is “incumbent on every community, in every place.” The establishment of just and moral leadership comes about partly through the people who appoint them. This idea is further reinforced by the interpretation of “צדק צדק תרדוף” – “Justice, justice you shall pursue.” The midrash Sifrei teaches that this means you (the individual) must “seek out the finest beit din.” We, the people, have a call to duty and to ensure justice as well.

These ideas are also reflected in the tefilla we say for the State of Israel. We pray to God: “bestow Your light and truth upon its leaders, ministers, and advisors, and grace them with Your good counsel.” May we choose and be blessed with moral, just and inspiring leaders in our time. Shabbat Shalom – Karen Miller Jackson

Parshat Re’eh: Seeing Clearly

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This week’s parsha (Re’eh) opens and closes with a keyword: To see. It begins with “Re’eh!” “See!” the choice you have before you to receive God’s blessings or curses. It ends with the mitzvah of “olat reiyah,” (the appearance-offering) when one would bring an offering and “see”/“be seen” by God in the mikdash. What is the relationship between seeing and being seen by God?

The olat reiyah was brought as part of the aliyah la-regel, the pilgrimage made on the three major festivals to the mikdash. While only men were obligated to bring an offering, women could participate in the pilgrimage and according to some sources, were even required in aliyah la-regel. The Talmud teaches that the prophet Jonah’s wife took on this mitzvah. This shows there was flexibility and potential inclusion for the women to take part in the mitzvot of aliyah la-regel. 

The language of the biblical source for the olat reiyah offering is ambiguous: “all your males shall be seen the face of God” (Devarim 16:16). Are they seeing or being seen? How can one see “pnei,” the face of God? The midrash Sifrei (re)interprets as follows: “If you do this, I will “free” (“poneh” which sounds like “pnei”) Myself of all My affairs and occupy Myself with you alone.” When we give of our time and possessions to see others and serve Hashem, God sees and blesses us. 

This mitzvah of the appearance-offering is also mentioned in the blessings on the Torah which we say each morning. It is listed among other mitzvot of loving-kindness for which there is “no fixed measure.” Why is the bracha on the Torah filled with mitzvot of giving either to God or others? Rav Aaron Lichetnstein zt”l teaches that this conveys to us the essence of Torah. Torah without chesed is “flawed.” Torah at its core should make us kinder, more giving human beings. As we begin the month of Elul, this is an opportunity to refocus, be more attentive to the needs of others and in turn be rewarded with being seen and blessed by God. Shabbat Shalom – Karen Miller Jackson

Parshat Ekev: Attitude of Gratitude

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Parshat Ekev contains the source for one of the only biblically mandated blessings: Birkat Ha-mazon. The context and interpretation of this mitzvah contains a life lesson which goes beyond the realm of food. It is a reminder not to take basic things in life for granted and to view them as precious gifts.

Devarim 8 describes the treasures which await B’nei Yisrael when they enter the land of Israel. After encountering this bounty, the Torah urges: “And you shall eat, and be satisfied, and you shall bless Hashem for the good land he has given you.” This verse is ambiguous. “You shall eat and be satisfied” is clearly a prediction, but what about “and you shall bless Hashem”? Is it a prediction or a command? Shadal provides a psychological interpretation of the p’shat of this verse: At first this expression of thankfulness will happen naturally — it’s a prediction. However, over time it is human nature to forget the source of goodness and take gifts and success for granted. So in the following verse, the Torah commands us not to forget God for the gifts bestowed. The Ramban also says that the people would naturally appreciate the land of Israel and its produce after they enter it, while they still remember the hunger and challenges of obtaining food in Egypt and the desert. The Ramban then adds that Chazal viewed “and you shall thank Hashem” as a command, not a prediction. For both the Shadal and the Ramban, there are times when gratitude comes naturally, and there are times when we need to be commanded to appreciate.

The mitzvah of Birkat Ha-mazon applies in every generation to everyone. Why then do we bless Hashem for the land of Israel whether or not one lives in Israel? Just as Birkat Ha-mazon ensures we don’t take our physical food for granted, so too it ensures we don’t take Israel and its physical and spiritual gifts for granted, wherever we are in the world. Shabbat Shalom🍞🍇-Karen Miller Jackson

Parshat Va’etchanan: Getting Closer

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What do parshat Va’etchanan and the holiday of Tu B’Av (which coincide this week) have in common?

The Shema prayer — the ultimate testament of faith and commitment by the Jewish people to God — is found in parshat Va’etchanan. The first paragraph begins with a challenging command: to Love Hashem. As the midrash Sifrei asks, “How does one come to love God?!” In other words, how can the Torah command such an emotion?! The Sifrei’s answer provides insight not only into how to observe the command to love God but also into how to increase love in human relationships. The Sifrei learns from the second paragraph of Shema, “And these things that I command you this day shall be upon your heart,” that the way to fulfill ahavat Hashem is by performing mitzvot. Acts of lovingkindness and service bring us closer, so to speak, to God. 

A similar idea runs through the closing mishna in Ta’anit, which teaches that Tu B’av (and Yom Kippur) were the happiest days, since the daughters of Israel would go out to dance in the vineyards to meet their love-match. The women would all borrow dresses so as not to shame anyone who did not own a nice white garment. The mishna continues by comparing this matchmaking celebration with the wedding day of Shlomo Ha-melech in Shir Hashirim: “Go forth, daughters of Zion, and gaze upon King Solomon… on the day of his wedding…” The mishna interprets Shlomo’s wedding day as a metaphor for the bond between God and Israel: The day of Matan Torah, God’s gift to Israel and Israel’s building of the mikdash. 

The message of this mishna and the Sifrei: selflessness, acts of giving and sacrifice increase love between the Jewish people and God and in human relationships as well. Shabbat shalom! -Karen Miller Jackson

Parshat Devarim: Words of Optimism

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Parshat Devarim, literally “words,” teaches that the language we choose to use can influence people’s motivation levels and feelings of optimism. 

Devarim opens with naming several places where the nation traveled in the desert. However, these places were never mentioned in the Torah before. Rashi teaches that this was how Moshe rebuked the generation whose parents sinned in the desert. Moshe alludes to these events indirectly, out of respect for Israel. Instead of using words which were shaming and demotivating, Moshe models how to speak words of criticism in a way which is respectful and can have positive outcomes. 

Our choice of words can also have a positive affect on our mindset and well-being. Rabbi Yehoshua b. Levi, in Talmud Pesachim, advises not to use negative language. He bases this on the fact that the Torah teaches the value of speaking positively by the addition of extra letters in the Noah narrative. Rather than calling the animals “impure,” the Torah states, “those that are not pure.” Similarly, Joseph Telushkin writes in his book “Rebbe,” that the Lubavitcher Rebbe believed that carefully chosen words could positively influence the emotional state of ourselves and others. For instance, the Rebbe refused to call a hospital a “beit cholim” (house of the sick) but rather called it “beit refuah” (house of healing).

A similar idea can be found in the discussion about the blessing “Yotzer Or,” said before Shema, in Talmud Berakhot. The bracha is based on the words of Isaiah 45: “Who forms light and creates darkness, Who makes peace and creates evil.” However, the phrase “creates evil” is replaced with a euphemism, “Who creates all things,” says the gemara, so as to not mention the word evil in tefilla. 

As we mourn the Temple which was destroyed over baseless hatred, parshat Devarim and the “Yotzer Or” blessing are reminders that speaking respectfully and positively spreads ahavat chinam and optimism in our world. Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson

Parshat Matot-Masei: How Leaders Should Speak

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What is the closing message of the book of Bamidbar for Jewish leaders?

Parshat Matot-Masei opens with an unusual topic – the laws of nedarim (vows). The commentaries question why Moshe seems to direct these laws only to “the tribal leaders of Israel.” Ramban comments that this section was in fact said only to the leaders, since the laws of vows required a particular expertise which only these Sages possessed. Rashi however, teaches that these laws were taught to all of Israel, but Moshe taught them to the leaders first, to honor them. Either way, the leaders are singled out as having a unique responsibility when it comes to vows. Vows highlight the power of speech and the significance of words – for the good and the bad – as it says, “[One who makes a vow] must carry out all that has come out of his mouth.”   

Perhaps these laws are placed at this point, as the second generation prepares to enter Israel, to remind the tribal leaders of their responsibility to inspire and lead the people into Israel. This is particularly appropriate as previously the tribal representatives used words to defame the land of Israel in the meraglim story, delaying entry to Israel. Hence, when Reuven and Gad request to settle the east bank of Jordan, they too are told by Moshe to fulfill what they promised “with their mouths,” solidifying their commitment.

Leaders have a responsibility to speak up, speak well, and be a positive influence. To speak up — as in the famous story of Kamtza and Bar Kamtza, where silence and passivity led to the destruction of the mikdash. To speak well — the Talmud (Nedarim!) teaches that Jerusalem was laid waste because the Sages did not say brachot over the Torah before learning. And, as we say each morning, “Please G-d, make the words of Your Torah pleasant in our mouths and in the mouths of all of Your people.” To positively influence — that is the lesson learned from the meraglim and highlighted by nedarim. 

Especially now, during the three weeks, may our leadership be reminded of their responsibility: to speak up for justice, to speak respectfully, and to be a positive influence on the Jewish people. Shabbat Shalom –Karen Miller Jackson

Parshat Pinchas: Change — The Torah Way

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What does parshat Pinchas teach about balancing tradition with innovation and about effecting successful change?

Bamidbar 28 repeats the various types of korbanot (offerings). Why is this repetition necessary? Rashi explains that the first time, in Tetzaveh, was during the inauguration of the mishkan, while now, it is “l’dorot”– to observe for all time. One verse in particular emphasizes the significance of consistent commitment involved in the daily tamid offerings: “You shall offer one lamb in the morning, and the other lamb you shall offer at twilight.” The Ein Yaakov cites Rabbi Shimon ben Pazi who teaches that this verse is “the essence of Torah.” The twice daily ritual creates a framework which shapes us and our relationship with God. According to one position in the Talmud, tefilla was instituted based on the daily tamid korbanot. This also captures the essence of tefilla, strengthening our connection to God daily.

How interesting then, that the korbanot which represent consistency, tradition and devotion immediately follow two episodes about significant change and innovation. First, after the Torah delineates how the land of Israel will be divided, the daughters of Zelophehad approach Moshe with a request for inheritance in Israel, as there were no sons to inherit. Their story highlights a delicate balance between tradition and innovation. The words which characterize their approach are words associated with tefilla: “Vatikravna” (and they drew close) and “vata’amodna” (and they stood). Drawing close — from the same root as korban, and standing — is reminiscent of the amidah. Second, Moshe sees the need to publicly and formally appoint his successor Joshua. Here too, the Torah uses language of devotion and continuity: Joshua is asked “to stand” before the nation and Moshe transfers some of his glory onto Joshua. 

Perhaps there is another reason the command to be punctilious in devotion and offerings to God follows these moments of significant change: To demonstrate how to bring about positive change while standing firm in tradition and religious commitment. Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson

*May our tefillot bring nechama to the families of chayalim Shilo Amir z”l and David Yitzchak z”l and may their memories be for a blessing.

Parshat Balak: Aspiring in Jewish Spaces

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“Ma Tovu,” the tefilla inscribed on the walls of many synagogues around the world and recited by many Jews upon entering shul in the morning, appears in parshat Balak. How do these words represent our aspirations for Jewish spaces? 

Bilaam, a non-Jewish prophet, is sent by Balak, king of Moab to curse the Jewish people. Instead, Bilaam ultimately blesses Bnei Yisrael: “How fair are your tents, O Jacob, Your dwellings, O Israel!” The Talmud (Bava Batra) interprets the fairness of the tents as follows: Bilaam saw that the tents of Israel were set up so that windows and doors did not directly face one another, providing privacy and separation. Perhaps this is why the tents are the tents of Jacob, emphasizing individual tribes and family identities. The second half however, refers to the “klal” the collective of Israel. “Mishkenotecha” – according to the midrash refers to the mishkan, where all of Israel comes together to worship Hashem. The two parts of “Ma Tovu” reflect the importance of preserving our identity within our ohel, with like-minded people, while also not losing contact with the klal, with Jews of different affiliations and ideologies.

Why, however, are these words which focus on Jewish homes, shuls and communities said by Bilaam, a non-Jew who wishes to curse us? The Talmud teaches that it highlights his true intention was to specifically curse the centers of Jewish life, which God then turned into blessings. Perhaps, there is a more positive reason – it encourages us to foster relationships with the non-Jewish world outside our Jewish spaces. Just as Bilaam’s intention to curse was turned to blessing, so too, should we work on shifting negative sentiments into positive views of the Jewish people. 

“Ma Tovu” is a 3-part statement of aspiration for our Jewish spaces: to establish strong Jewish identity, to acknowledge the good in other parts of Klal Yisrael and to foster positive relations with the non-Jewish world around us. Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson