Parshat Chukat: The Dangers of Anger

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Parshat Chukat seems to be a familiar narrative: Bnei Yisrael complain, Moshe and Aharon intervene and God punishes and forgives. However, it contains a new, unfortunate twist: This time Moshe sins and is punished. What went so wrong and what can we learn from Moshe’s experience?  

After Miriam’s death, the people quarrel with Moshe out of desperate thirst for water. God instructs Moshe to take his staff along with Aharon, gather the people and speak to the rock which would miraculously produce water. However, Moshe and Aharon lose patience and say, “Listen, you rebels…” Then Moshe strikes the rock instead of speaking to it. God says that because he didn’t have faith and sanctify God in public, Moshe is tragically punished: he will not enter the land of Israel. The exact sin is not specified in the Torah. It is clear that Moshe loses his temper with the people and loses control when hitting the rock. This is the view of Rambam, that Moshe’s sin was getting angry and also mistakenly conveying to the people that Hashem was angry with them. Rambam brings this episode (in Shemonah Perakim) to demonstrate that anger is a risky emotion and requires mindfulness and perfecting. 

Rambam’s view on avoiding anger is also expressed in his halakhic writing about tefilla. The Talmud Berakhot teaches that one should have kavanah (intention) in prayer and it is inappropriate to pray from a place of excessive sorrow, laziness, laughter, chatter or frivolity. When Rambam codifies this to law he adds one more emotional state which will disrupt one’s ability to daven properly: anger. By waiting to begin tefillah until the angry feeling has subsided, one learns that anger needs to be regulated and should not be brought along as we approach God in tefilla. 

Moshe provides a lesson: Anger is a natural emotion which can be constructive at times, but unchecked anger, especially in leaders, can have devastating consequences. Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson

Ki Tissa: Learning from Shattered Luchot

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What can be learned about leadership from Moshe’s reaction to the golden calf? Is it ever acceptable for leaders to speak or act out of anger? The commentaries on parshat Ki Tissa provide some insight.

When Israel commits the sin of the golden calf, the Torah states that Hashem became angry, so to speak, and Moshe calmed God’s anger. God tells Moshe “leave Me be so that My anger may blaze forth against them.” Yet, after succeeding in turning back God’s anger, Moshe seems to lose control upon coming down the mountain and seeing for himself the people celebrating with the calf. The parallel between God and Moshe’s anger is reinforced by the Torah’s use of the same words: ויחר אף. Next, Moshe throws down the first set of luchot (tablets) and shatters them.

Was Moshe’s shattering of the luchot condoned by God? One view is that not only was Moshe right to break the luchot, but God even agreed with this act. God tells Moshe to make a second set of luchot, with the same words as on the first ones which he had shattered, אשר שברת. This is interpreted in Talmud Shabbat with a wordplay – strength to you (yashar kochecha) for shattering them. Here, God affirms Moshe’s action. A more critical view is found in Devarim Rabbah, where God reprimands Moshe for breaking the luchot. Since Moshe broke the luchot from a place of fury, God punishes Moshe by having him re-make the second set of tablets. Here, Moshe’s greatness is in accepting this.

The Talmud also teaches that the broken luchot were kept in the same ark as the new luchot, due to their sanctity. Perhaps it was also to serve as a warning. The image of carrying the broken luchot can be a reminder to modern leaders as well, who hopefully strive to be like Moshe, that they have a responsibility to not react from anger nor spread enmity, but rather to model good character and temperament toward each other and the world. Shabbat Shalom – Karen Miller Jackson