Ki Tetze: Fostering Compassion

Parshat Ki Tetze contains many mitzvot. One in particular relates to a central theme of Elul and Rosh Hashanah: fostering and praying for mercy and compassion.

What is the purpose of the mitzvah of shiluach ha-ken, sending away the mother bird before taking her young or eggs? Mishna Berakhot teaches that one may not add to tefilla the statement: Be merciful with us as “Your mercy extends to a bird’s nest.” One explanation in the Gemara of this ambiguous teaching is that it is best not to attach reasons to mitzvot. Still, many biblical commentaries see a deep connection between shiluach ha-ken and the trait of compassion.

Rambam, in the Guide to the Perplexed, explains that if the Torah warns against causing such grief to birds, how much more careful should we be not to cause grief to people. The Ha’amek Davar highlights the bravery of the mother bird, whose instinct is to remain and protect her young – an image of compassion par excellence. The word rachamim (mercy) is also related to rechem (womb), evoking the compassion a mother feels toward her child. Perhaps for this reason, mothers – Sarah, Hagar, and Hannah – feature prominently in the Rosh Hashanah liturgy, when we pray fervently for God’s compassion.

The shofar, blown throughout Elul in the lead-up to Rosh Hashanah, is also associated with rachamim. According to the Midrash, God called Moshe to ascend Mount Sinai a second time on Rosh Chodesh Elul. The shofar was blown then to awaken the people to repentance as they sought God’s mercy and forgiveness.

By emulating the compassion God shows us – toward others and toward ourselves – we merit the words of the Talmud: “Anyone who has compassion for God’s creatures will receive compassion from Heaven.” Shabbat Shalom🇮🇱 -Karen Miller Jackson


Parshat Nitzavim & Rosh Hashanah: On Renewal Opportunities

The word “hayom” (today) is repeated numerous times in parshat Nitzavim. On this final day of Moshe’s life, he gathers the people to renew the covenant with Bnei Yisrael: “You stand today, all of you, before God…” Hayom is also a significant word in Rosh Hashanah liturgy: “Today is the birthday of the world. Today all creatures of the world stand in judgment.” Why such emphasis on the word “today”?

Rashi explains the significance of the word “today” in Nitzavim: just as an individual day consists of a cycle of darkness and then light, so too, even if we as a nation endure dark times, God is ensuring that light and peaceful times will shine again. 

The Netivot Shalom provides another interpretation. He writes that Nitzavim and Rosh Hashanah both relate to the theme of renewal. In Nitzavim, the people are renewing a covenant with God. Rosh Hashanah – the day on which the world was created – is a day of “hitchadshut,” to renew ourselves and our relationship with God. This idea also connects to the daily Shema prayer, which frames each day as we say Shema in the morning and at bedtime. “And these words, which I command you this day, shall be upon your heart.” The midrash Sifrei comments on this verse: These words should not be like an antiquated edict but rather should be new to us each day. Today signals that each day is an opportunity for renewal and to find new meaning in Torah and mitzvot. 
The word “hayom” also appears in the haftorah on day one of Rosh Hashanah. After years of longing for a child, Hannah gets terribly upset and decides to take action, to pray. This significant change occurs “on that day (hayom).” A new day brought Hannah new hope and her prayers were answered. May this Rosh Hashanah be a time of meaningful renewal and may all our prayers be answered on this day. Shabbat Shalom and Shana Tova -Karen Miller Jackson