Beha’alotcha: The Power and Pitfalls of Speech

Our world has been increasingly dominated by negative speech. Online communication has fueled the inability to engage in dialogue with people who think differently, alongside societal trends of “cancel culture” and “post-truth.” At the same time, the Torah teaches that speech is a gift given only to human beings, as seen in Targum Onkelos, who calls Adam in Bereshit “a speaking spirit.” Parshat Beha’alotcha highlights the power of speech to influence others, for both good and bad.

The parsha begins on a hopeful note. The pinnacle of Bnei Yisrael’s preparation to enter the land is expressed in the words we recite on Shabbat morning, “ויהי בנסוע הארון.” Immediately following this, is the story of the “mitonenim,” (bitter complainers) who spread unrest among the people by “complaining evil in the ears of Hashem.” To make this turning point even sharper, the previous verses are bracketed by two upside down letter “nuns.” Perhaps signaling that from this point on their lives would take a significant downturn.

The Ha’amek Davar teaches that the “mitonenim” start a downward spiral of faith for the generation in the desert. They had the greatest divine providence, yet, the provocateurs spread criticism which culminated with the spies who sowed negativity among the whole nation. Rashi comments that the words, “complaining evil in the ears of Hashem,” indicate that they were looking only for a pretext to provoke and stir up hatred, they had no valid criticisms. Hence, the strong punishment by God.

The potential power and pitfalls of speech is a theme which begins in our parsha and runs through sefer Bamidbar. In contrast, when Moshe recounts the travails of the Jewish people in the desert in the opening of Devarim, he models positive, constructive speech. Rashi teaches that Moshe changes the names of places to protect the dignity of Israel. How can we follow Moshe’s example in the way we communicate today? Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson


Kedoshim: An Antidote to Hate

Parshat Kedoshim contains one of the most important chapters in the Torah according to the commentaries. It also contains mitzvot which are at the forefront of contemporary society and the challenges we face.

After focusing on the holiness of the mikdash and kohanim, Vayikra 19 marks a revolutionary shift where everyone is commanded: “Be holy.” Midrash Sifra teaches that this was one of the sections read out to the whole community during hakhel, emphasizing the potential for all to infuse their lives with holiness. Moreover, it lists many interpersonal mitzvot as the path to holiness. One of these mitzvot – “love your neighbor as yourself,” – was considered by Rabbi Akiva to be the overarching rule of the Torah.

New challenges have arisen accentuating the importance of these mitzvot which strive to enhance human relationships. Smartphones and social media have made it easy and trendy to criticize others publicly. This has led to hurtful and alienating behaviors such as virtue signaling, shaming and canceling. More sinisterly, it has also fueled the spread of fake news, hatred and extremism. One mitzvah in particular speaks to this challenge: “You shall not hate your brother in your heart, rebuke your kinsman, but incur no guilt because of him.” This verse seems to support criticizing others. Yet, the Talmud Arachin limits the scope of “tochecha,” when it teaches that the criticism must stop if it results in public shaming. The sages themselves acknowledge that most of them were incapable of receiving or giving rebuke effectively as it was meant to diminish hatred in one’s heart.

What is the antidote to the spread of falsehood, hatred and anger? Frank Bruni writes that in this era “overwhelmed by grievance,” we need more humility. Even more, Kedoshim provides a moral and practical framework for calling out injustice from a desire to spread holiness instead of hatred. Shabbat Shalom🇮🇱 -Karen Miller Jackson


Parshat Shlach: On “Influencers”

Parshat Shlach is most known for containing the sin of the meraglim (spies). Yet, the entire generation was punished. What was their fault and what lessons can be drawn from this tragic story for our world today?

Biblical interpreters point out that the narrative of the meraglim did not occur in a vacuum. This is not the beginning of the people’s faithlessness. It is part of a series of stories of criticism and resentment in Bamidbar, which begins with small groups and spreads throughout the nation. Rashi teaches that the meraglim narrative follows the story of Miriam’s punishment for speaking lashon ha’ra to show that the spies should have learned the dangers of slander, yet they did not. The Ha’amek Davar sees the failings of the spies as going further back to the “mitonenim,” (provocateurs) who start a downward spiral of criticism which culminates with the spies who spread negativity among the nation.

However, these interpretations risk portraying the people as being easily swayed by the meraglim and therefore lacking some degree of agency. Caleb and Joshua rejected the negative reports and said “let us go up!” Why weren’t they listened to? Rabbi Yehuda Brandes suggests that the nation’s unmitigated support for the ten spies, complete disregard for the words of Caleb, and immediate cries of hopelessness, show that the spies were feeding off the fears and faithlessness of the people. Bnei Yisrael were not just swayed but had an active role in escalating the negative reports and were therefore punished severely. The people influenced the spies as much as the spies influenced the people.

In our era of digital connectivity, negativity and resentment can spread particularly rapidly. Complacency allows them to breed. The recent spate of violence against healthcare workers in Israel and of gun violence in the US are a call to spread positive and constructive voices in the world. Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson