Parshat Vayechi opens and closes with moving deathbed scenes of Yaakov and Yosef, each making final requests regarding their burial. The contrasts between these moments offer a lens for envisioning ideal Israel-Diaspora relations.

Yaakov makes his request to be buried with his forefathers in Canaan twice – first to Yosef and then to his other sons. To Yosef, who has lived in Egypt for some time, he pleads, “Please do not bury me in Egypt,” and requires him to swear an oath ensuring that he will not be buried there, even temporarily. In contrast, he simply instructs his other sons to bury him in the Cave of Machpelah. Yosef, however, is prepared to be buried temporarily in Egypt, asking his brothers only to promise that his bones will be taken to the Land of Israel when the nation is redeemed at the time of the Exodus.

Why was it so essential for Yaakov to be buried immediately in Israel, while Yosef accepted a delay? The Lubavitcher Rebbe explains that Yaakov’s burial in Israel was vital as a symbol of hope and connection for Bnei Yisrael in exile. As Talmud Berakhot teaches, “A prisoner cannot redeem himself from prison.” The people of Israel held on to the image of Yaakov in Israel as a reminder of their ultimate destiny. At the same time, Yosef’s presence in Egypt was necessary; he served as a protector and sustainer of the people in both life and death during their time in galut.

This dynamic offers a template for Israel-Diaspora relations today. As the situation in Israel has stabilized, at least for now, Jewish communities in chutz la’aretz, like Yosef, have a vital role to play in this historic moment – projecting a proud, confident Jewish identity both to fellow Jews and to the broader world. Yet, this is not their final destination. At the same time, we in Israel, like Yaakov, should strive to serve as a source of support, hope and aspiration to strengthen our brothers and sisters and draw them closer to their homeland. Shabbat Shalom -Karen Miller Jackson